Monday, March 26, 2012

march 23 - 26, 2012

March 26
       today...nothing much sa am...but just now, on my way to look over the work being done by our grasscutter, i slip by the ramp intended for the motorcycle, followed by another one while giving instruction by the house side...been raining since saturday....
naglaba c paolo ng mga linens today at irregular na classes nila, while benok is still having his final exams....had lunch at sis gigi with paolo here sa citta at 1st yr death anniversary ng hubby nya... 
top c benok sa exam nya today...wooohooo....
March 25
     heard mass sa clubhouse and did the offering ng mga churchgoers...den after lunch, pinag pala ko sa tabi ng house c benok at super dami na talaga ng damo, den nagwalis nmn c paolo...we also cleaned the garage of all the unnecessary trash out there....sinabit na sa taas nung pix ni papa ung ginawa nyang pencil sketch portrait ko.... nag grocery kami ni benok sa SM at grabe ha, umabot ng 4k ang napamili namin, mga needs lang un ha...buti nlng at me laman pa ang landbank ko....super pagod kaya di na me naka OL....tumawag c mario at nandun sila sa bday ni mark fausto and katawa at nanaginip daw sya na zombie sya at me naghahamit sa kanya, kaya kinagat nya at nagising sya na kagat2 pa nya c aingge..hehehehe...
March 24
      nothing much today...pina ayos ko lang ung mga sampayan ke benok today...naglaba din sila ni paolo in am...catch a baby delivered by Dra. Garana, kaya lng toxic at nahirapan sa pag iri ang mom, so had to ask for assistance from Dra. Enriquez in anticipation of pulmonary complications....
March 23
      buti nlng at me patient kahapon, so napondohan ung check for today...had tuna sisig from BUDDY's at usapan n nmin  ni jovie un...hehehe

Friday, March 23, 2012

march 21 - 22, 2012

March  21
          still a gloomy day today...occasional  rainshowers... some patients came by...ate lunch at the mezzanine before going home...got my philhealth ID thru mail...met topers' car on my way home..that's it...started with my series marathon after lunch...talked w/ chie on my tampo ke toper and discussed about Mla. Memorials' lot details...hehehe...slept late


March 22
          at least me patient today...jay ilagan- laurice hubby passed by for my signage on laurens' dentist appointment and gave me mango cake in return...chat away with ate cess, who is having a hang-over coz of drinking last night with pei and the others in their room...

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

March 18 - 20, 2012

              
March 18, 2012
          Heard mass at clubhouse today, offered the candle, while Hajime offered our enveloped offering, then had to go home early 'coz Joanne passed by for the immunization documentation of Yanna, then i gave her a tour of the house, then her dad fetch her...went to Pacifik for groceries with benok 'coz our stocks had been depleated for the last few days.. saw Carrie - Papas' friend from City hall and told her of the missing marriage certificate of Emar and Aingge....Mario and Denise passed by to pick up emars' things and off they go....updated on 'Cess blog and cleared up on several matters regarding her and Boo... prayed for lolo with the kids...used Sto. Nino chaplet...
March 19, 2012
          Passed by City hall before going to the clinic and been looking for "charie" eh Caridad pala ung name nung friend ni papa...lol...left her all the documents ,then Tta Sandra called while i was about to take a nap in the afternoon to tell me that all the papers had been signed up already, so, i had to get up and get the duly signed marriage contract... then, after a lil' rest, had to go out again for a delivery at MCDGH..then, had dinner, then so, overworked up..had to pray early to sleep early...
March 20, 2012
         Today is Lolo Papa's 9th day since he died and i called on Toper to let him know that I asked Tita Rose to Pray with us at 3pm at home....
             Went to MCDGH early for a delivery after a hurried breakfast, then when i got back home , did the laundry of only the uniforms and some dark colored ones...didn't finished all, 'coz it's been raining since yesterday and we don't have enough clothesline to hang the laundered ones...
           Had lunch at Dr. Villamayors ofc. 'coz it's his bday...then when i arrived home, told Ver to fetched the group of Tta Rose at the cathedral and asked Toper if he can pick up the Chame and bread at Jun and Ediths' place fronting Maryhill...then, prepared all the plates needed, then when the Praying group arrived, twuz still early, around 2:20pm, so i called back Toper if he can pick and come earlier 'coz the group is already here, and yes, of course, he can never be hurried on matters like this and said he's still awaiting somebody and more, so, i just slam down the phone and told Tta Rose to wait awhile 'coz i need to pick up our food first...and , when i came back, we proceeded with the prayers, since Toper called up Jovie to tell me to get the food myself.....db sakit nun??? not even the guts to tell me himself!!!! Up to the last moment, ako lang talaga lahat....kainis talaga!!!!!and yes, after ive fetch Tta Rose and companion out the gates of Citta, i even texted them both- Bervie and Toper to pass by the house to partake of the abundant food- and it's 9pm now..still no word...Tapos, kuno concerned sa akin when i get mad of the kids..if i get hurt- physically and emotionally....well----- yes, i've known it long enough that those were all hollow words of love and care.....felt enough of these loving words that has no meaning at all......

Saturday, March 17, 2012

march 15 - 17, 2012

March 15, 2012
         had clinic today...tta Sandra brought to my clinic my senior citizen card na pinagawa nya ke charie- her friend in charge of the release at dun ko nlng finil-up ang mga forms..pinapirmahan na din ni mario ke tto Caloy ung marriage contract nila na niwala sa ofc ng city hall...grabe db!!!!...then yung maid eh nagpa-alam na , kesyo need daw sya to take care of her lola at aalis daw uncle nya...buti na lang at nakapag laba and linis ng ref sa itaas..sayang at malinis sana and ok sa work, kaya lang, gotta let go.....umuwi na din sila chie after lunch at me pasok pa kids bukas, buti nlng at wala today 'coz me rally public transport against oil hike..... then gave money nlng to sisterhood to buy us food, coz i planned to attend a RTD at Luisa's on HepA but, toper called to ask na we eat out daw sa Palaisdaan and chip in daw eh sabi ko buti pa sa RTD libre eh gagastos pko dun..then when we finally ate there, na kunsensya nmn me ke ver at di ko isinama kahit pa asked ni sisterhood...hehehe...then twuz bervie, who paid for all - php3400+++, i just gave the php100 na earlier eh hiniram ni toper...again they drink at home at nagka bondingan kami kaya late na me nakatulog - 1 am...
March 16, 2012
         slept past 1am na, 'coz had a grand time bonding with toper,Bervie, sister joy and Roland..then woke up around 4 am and tried to weight down if i'll go with the visita iglesias of Lourdes parish, then by 4:30am, i texted nini and sis gigi if they've gone already, but they told me they will fetch me back home at ok pa daw, so i got just in time for the 1st station at Our Lady of Lourdes parish, at the 7th and 8th station, i couldn't go on na 'coz even while at Lucban church, i was already debating on myself if i should continue with the trip, coz i could feel myself feeling whoozy already..but finally decided not to call emar and push through nlng at i'm offering it for lolo papa's soul kc, since indi kami nakakuha ng magpre-pray for lolos' 9day prayer...sis gigi bought bonamine for me after our sinoloan station, but i had to forego with the 7th to 8th station to preserve my energy and to avoid my BP to shoot up...on the 9th station, i was feeling much better kaya i decided to join again ...i tried and was able to go up the 125 steps on one of the church station and thank God that i did 'coz it really was a sacrifice for the souls of my cherished loves- lolo, mommy and papa Ato....and, of course, i knew that if my kids were there, no one would have allowed me to go up those stairs, especially after my dizziness and blowing up earlier at the van....ate lunch at Magdalena station of fried tilapia, salted egg w/ tomato...got me 2 slippers and 1 for jovie at Liliw - our last station for the stations, coz got no idea of the sizes of sisters feet and choices din...then, when i arrived home, di pala natuloy cla Ryf to go home, kaya super bc c sisterhood sa pag cook and their bagoong that they got fr. the market here was a big hit for everybody sa super sarap nito...Toper called them earlier daw na super traffic so mewhere sa Sto. Tomas and advised them to postpone going home earlier at talaga daw parusa ang traffic....slept early to rest....Aingge arrived 4pm na daw, then slept at cotta...
March 17, 2012
         woke up 8am after a restfull sleep last night...Paolo did the laundry today  under the supervision of Mario 'coz Hajime has to defend his thesis today... after bfast, umuwi na sila RYF and they reached home at 1:30pm na.....Joanne arrived last at the clinic and had yanna given her varicella shot...had the chance to chat with Ate sa YM while she's havin her keratin treatment at a salon in Abu Dhabi...re-register anew my chikka and skype accounts..asked Ate to check on it later...benox brought his "unofficially yours- Rhysma " just awhile ago...Mario will sleep at Cotta nmn to night...

march 12 - 14, 2012

March 12
        dunno, but wasn't able to sleep well today..not until 3am, so after waking up for the kids uniform to iron up, i went bk to take a nap till 9:30am..then was awaken by jovies' text that there were patients already so, i decided to go to lolo papa after clinic hours na..then i talked with chie pa about lolos uniforms in preparation for any eventuality before finally going up to the room...when i arrived, lolos' breathing was already fast and shallow, so i told the nurse inside about it..when i said hi...he began taking kussmaul breathing na , so i told him, we'll pray and we did, then after i told him it's time to let go, so he can already rest bcoz he has been suffering long enough, he began counting down his last breathe, slowly, without any effort on his side..until he finally rested...i have earlier signed a DNR ( do not resuscitate) to relieve him of any further pain in the end...at 1:30pm he was pronounced dead....
        i called funeraria pagbilao, since they are the only ones accepting pacific plans that papa has for his pre-need plan...Toper was the one who talked to them to let me rest a while and they also bought the mundane things, foods and drinks needed for a wake... then by 5:30 pm after i sent ver to bring lolos socks, brief and inner shirt, tonipet called to inform me that lolos' remains is already there and thatshe is already there with pareng lando, so, we hurriedly went there....it only took an hour for lolos' embalming....had an in-promtu meeting with phaseIII citta group at the wake-hehehe...kaya late na umuwi...


March 13, 2012
           told techie not to get lolos' uniform anymore 'coz of all the paper works that it will entail...had clinic pa din...then mareng malou arrived with maid- tina, who i told to just help out however she can, coz everyone's busy.... emar, chie and kids then Bambie arrived, one after the other today...Bambie watched over lolo tonight...was so tired na kaya while talking to Tta Sandra almost lost consciousness na, maybe 'coz of too much fatigue for the last few days....William arrived almost 10pm na and twuz really Gods' blessing to make us feel that we need HIM in this lonely time, coz William brought his cousin priest with him and we had an on the spot Mass for lolo, even if 10pm na..Lilet Gamboa's youngest son- Carlo, served at the mass...


March 14, 2012
       Mario went early today to get his marriage license at City Hall but wasn't able to, 'coz everybody out there doesn't know where it is and even blamed him for submitting late his requirements...kaya sumagot na sya, na kahit late, eh dala na nya, kaya they had to produce his license...told him to cont. with the ff-up tomorrow...finally got lolos' death certificate....jovie, malou and mareng belen went with us at the crematorium, Tta Sands and Tto Caloy ff suit...Lilets' whole family w/ Marco and Ludy and Jon2 arrived in time for lunch and for the mass...had picture taking of families while waiting for lolos' remains and got pissed off ke chie for not wanting to join with vers' family photoshoot..very aloof and nakasimangot and layo tuloy sa pic....then brought lolos' remain beside Ato temporarily 'coz gotta wait for his burial assistance to be able to spend for Mla. Memorials' requirement...everybody went home then had dinner and had a great time while drinking and lumabas, kakalugan ni Marco and we finally got to know him and liked him better...then Jon2 gave php1000 for techies kids through emar and me kasi, indi daw nila malapitan si chie at lagi paalis pag try nila...baka daw tanggihan sya and yup...asked nga why daw nid to give sa kids....nainis n din me....tinanggap din naman at wala na kasi sila when i gave it, pero talagang yabang pa din ang pinalit...kaya next day, sinabihan ko sya na she has to let go of all her hang ups with her family, kaya tuloy di sya maging masaya and di maka move on sa life... sabi ko nga, this will be the last time, i'd ask her to stay here at baka malalinan pa ako ng super negative vibes nya on life....





















Sunday, March 11, 2012

march 10 - 11, 2012

march 09, 2012 continuation...
          Well, yes, dumating si chie with kids, tikya, babet, buchik and kid lalay...fetch them at the front gate and we proceeded to lolo papa na, while i attended the MSO turn-over ceremony at MMG conference hall...as usual, nag inuman cla rara kagabi and nagsuka c benok before going to bed...and Bogsie arrived too dahil sabi ni roland if indi sya punta, mamatay daw sya...ayun, sa takot kahit gabi na eh talagang pumunta kaya tawanan to the max ang mga loko....nagpunta din c Fr. Benny ke papa kahapon...kahit na tinext ko lang sya and wala pa ko dun...He's so good talaga....


March 10, 2012
      today, after lunch, umuwi n cla tikya after passing by Pacifik mall where i made pasyal sa 2 kids and we ate sa Mcdo..then in pm, i had to fetch naman cla baby roberto and hubby with amparo- my cousins fr. papa's side at PLDT at sa diversion kasi cla dumaan, then went straight ke papa,but he is no longer that responsive as yesterday....maybe he's hearing us, kasi, he closes his eyes as if acknowledging our presence but not totally responsive...then, daan lang sa bahay, and they had to go home na din 'coz gagabihin na sila...then chie and i proceeded to her ninong Verdan at Maharlika, where we asked about lolo papa's possible vigils as a policeman, 'coz retiree din sya...then, we talked about the bussiness of t-shirt, mugs and other printing, and yes, they are already accepting orders and they are also eyeing on chie's joining them too...well, we decided to join forces for bulk orders and they are into scrapbooking and crafts too...and it got me really excited 'coz it seems we were guided to be there, to finally push through with all my plans and also to finally open chies' eyes of better possibilities in here... sabi nga namin, tamang-tama at summer break, so we can start and see where things go...and from 25thou, nasa 18 thou nlng yata ung pkg..then, cla toper wants to join too, so sabi ko sila nmn buy ng mga add on machines  para pede n kami admit bulk orders at c amor verdan- one of the soon to be partners, ay nag resign na sa work para nga mag full time na...then mas wider ang mga possible market namin, with toper, bervi adding to clients..we're gonna discuss everything maybe after holy week, dahil baka loan ako pambuy ng machines...this is it...even if chie decided not to come here, me work force nako at pag dating sa layouts and desgns eh bagito pa cla amor...we can share ideas together and share works...me orders na silang mga invites and despite being generics ang design eh me na-order na...nakita mga gawa ko and super excited sila, 'coz we can really market them daw....then, when we went home, we also discuss the possibility of putting up a residential housing care for patients na specialty ni roland..told him to know all the details of his project, so, we can fully study its possibilities....


March 11, 2012
            Roland went home early today..then i made my attendance for the gen. assembly of MMG, where i was able to talk to Dra. Fermo about the feasibilities of rolands project here in Lucena...ok naman daw at it will be the 1st here in Lucena and she'll be the psychiatrist on call at magkakilala naman sila from their Mkt. Med days...then, was able to talk to YB on papa's condition, where we decided not to push through with blood transfusion anymore  so as not to prolong his agony any further...ok nmn daw at talaga namang, we can't help his suffering any further even if we try...dumadami na kasi ang bed sore at now, totally, ayaw na nyang magpa galaw....then nung dumaan kami bago umuwi sila chie, pati dun sa NGT feeding nya eh nagrereklamo na din...buti nga indi ako ang nagbabantay, kasi halos ayaw ko ng ipatuloy ung feeding nya at nahihirapan nga....then,after ihatid cla chie sa grand, i rested awhile sa haws then nagsimba kami ni Paolo at sya ang nagsampay kanina ng nilabhan ni bnx at nag ihaw nung bbq na pinaturo ko ke rara sa kanila ang timpla...then after the mass, we passed by and prayed for papa sa Porta Coeli, then got 3 halo2 from Chowking na we didn't like at matabang and di masarap...dumating c ydes para mag pareseta meds ng mom nya...that's all for today!!!hehehe...(",)...

Friday, March 9, 2012

march 8 - 9,2012


March 8
      When i visited papa today, he’s not in good shape..been vomiting since last night daw so, while at Dra Remojo’s wake, Dra. Yb told me she advised for Ngt insertion and deferred her mgh earlier advise..called Bambie and ryf to advise on lolo’s condition and made them talk to papa through the fone...finallyLilet and Ludie paid him a visit in the afternoon with the kids but wasn’t able to mit with ludie ‘coz of my headache due to so much glare and heat...then after hearing mass at Bamo for Dra. Remojo, went to Arias and fetch Rara and sisterhood then after dinner, we met up with toper at the hospi... lolo papa is not responsive this time..then by 10pm, Bambie arrived with hubby and they stayed with Ver to take care of lolo papa..
March 9
     Wala pasok kids but me project c Pao and Benok had to defend his art work competition- digital ..sa Monday daw ang result...did the laundry early am, then asked Jovie to buy yema cake for Bambie, ‘coz it’s  her bday today..then again no patient..so, went home early today and buti nlng naluto na ni Rara ung sinigang sa miso n asana ay ung hito, but ung salmon head ang ginamit nya...super sarap naman..ate lunch 3pm na coz busog pa dun sa tuna roll that we got from ground zero....pinakilala ni Pao ang Gf daw nya- Naika daw...sinabihan ko na gawing inspiration ang bawat isa and not to go beyond any that is expected of them...sabi ko ke paolo earlier, walang kissing2 dahil kasunod nun eh erection na and after that mahirap na....hehehe..syempre, like Mario noon, shockable sya sa directness ni mama nya...lol....darating daw sila techie today...no calls yet though...called on Fr. Benny Garcia to pay lolo a visit at the hospital for blessing.....

march 1 to 5, 2012

March 1
    went to SM to look for milcu for my bubie powder para wag pawisan..then roam around na lang since wala namang patient, then i saw nicey fairy thingees for cess fairy inspired wedding theme...enjoy naman me, then went home na...
March 2
   went back to SM and bought the fairy bags for kids and headband, then syempre thank GOD, bawi naman sa patients this day..
March 3
  den2 gamboa's debut..woke up 3:15am 'coz was advised that we'll go by 4am..i just had to hitch ride with everybody 'coz i wouldn't drive to Manila alone... by 4am, nobody's going down lilets' house , so, i decided to leave the car at topers' place and just took a tricycle with bnx back to lilets place...we finally left the place at 6am...lotsa traffic and accidents along the way, so, we arrived at Great Eastern hotel at almost 12noon na...had bfast at jollibee Sn. Pablo..well, our driver was  so mayabang and super mareklamo....just gotta bear with his overbearing self-centered ego....then i just decided to stay at the hotel, coz emar was having fever and we couldn't meet anyways...had adobo for our late lunch....we ( aqui and i ) first decided to go home with Dra. Cabangon after the affair 'coz Toper called that lolo papa had seizure and needs to be confined but Dra. yamballa and almost everybody was in Mla..so, he was just endorsed to Dr. Olitoquit...so, i told lilet if toper won't call back, i might just stay the night..then again after the wild but very happy night, when i was about to go with the 1st group to Lucena by 12mn, i heard that our driver was again making reklamo that Dra. Lilet forgot to give them a room to rest , and  their lunch and all kinds of reklamo, so we- aqui and i decided to just really stay behind 'coz i don't want to see that guy again!!! and since paurong-sulong kami kaya talagang we stand firm na not to go home that night...
March 4
      the kids went inside the room by almost 5am na..un pala, most went with Lilet and Joy to Libis for a smourgasboard breakfast and just like ate and kuya, Benok decided and told Lilet am already asleep so they didn't let us know that they were going kasi mapupuyat and mapapagod daw me...ayun naiwan kami...kainis eh kaya nga di me umuwi nung gabi eh gusto ko sumama dun sa libis at from 12mn to 10am lang pala un...
     by 10am, i decided to go to Glorietta na kasi lumuwas cla Toper for some spare parts for the printer, kasi inip na ko waiting for their iteneraries pa, kaya lang grabe ha- php185 ang taxi fare ko....but i left benok behind who enjoyed naman to the maximum level..enjoy namn din kami nila toper, nag ikot sa glorietta till 3pm...syempre bought shoes and bag c sisterlet sa landmark...
March 5 
     mommys' bday and jovie and i forgot to give her mass...today ko lng nasabi sa kanya, kaya bukas na un...visited lolo sa hospi then to clink na...then went back nung hapon sa MMG coz of the OB and Pedia meeting on the lying - in clinic proposed by the elder Dra. Calayan..asking for a MOA with MMG hospi as its' referring hospital....Toper told me of their food offering for mommy on her bday and tits' said that if the spoon fell, it means mommy was there and lo and behold after a minute or two, the spoon fell...bwahaha....oh , i think it's today that aingge dreamt of papa..twuz' emar and my bday daw, then i called on papa to go down to eat lunch and he went down and told aningge..hey, it's good you are here...

march 6 - 7, 2012

    didn't sleep well last night 'coz of my being paranoid becoz of the big rat that i saw yesterday am when i was awakened at around 4:00 am by something moving around which i thought was coming from the dog downstairs or somewhere near the lift..then i saw my small doll down by the CR fell down out of nowhere since there was not even a whift of wind and when i opened the light, i saw a very big, big rat going down from the upper shelf near the CR, so, i kept the light open and tried to sleep, then again i saw it walking by the sliding door rail of the lift!!!! then when benox tried to look for it, he saw it running to the loft bed..so , i couldn't sleep anymore...and when i sleep last nyt, the same image keeps on coming back so, i really didn't sleep well... i couldn't even organize the room fearing it may still be around..so, today i went to topers' after clinic and slept till 4:30 pm then i went home and found out the azotea room opened 'coz bnx was already home pala since 3pm..and passed through the lift door 'coz i locked the room...this pm, i made bnx, re-arrange my orocans where the rat was passing through and was re-assured that it's no longer there..so far...hehehe.....hope to sleep better tonight....got pissed off 'coz of the cubics  when i tried to close the azotea door that was stopping its' closure...now, c benox na ang naiinis.....
       March 6
             while bnx was cooking, paolo fixing the bed, i laundered their fave pillows which already smelled of their perspiration...woke up early 'coz of the doggone rat sighting...went home medyo late in the pm coz went to Pacifik for groceries, meds and back again, cos of the ballast of the circular light replacement that i bought...then benox washed the clothes while i was getting ready for a meeting with municipal officers all over Quezon and private pedias regarding EPI census then proceeded to the wake of our colleague Dra. Cecile Remojo who died yesterday from complications of breast cancer..then home, where paolo had already fixed the lifts' lifting gear where the rat passes through going to the room...and benok cooked sinigang for dinner...only this am that Jovie had a mass for mommys' bday yesterday...